Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts

Thursday, November 15, 2018

Recent News

It's been quite awhile since I've posted anything. Michael pulled up our blog on his iPad and let the kids look through our posts. They really enjoyed seeing the pictures and reading what we wrote back then.

Since we last posted, Jonathon and Christian have served missions and we have another addition to our family.  Peter William joined our family on March 7. We've really enjoyed having another baby in our family and the kids have loved having him here. Each of the kids (and adult kids) have been so helpful when I need him fed, held, or looked after. Peter is now eight months old and eating solids. He's learning how to crawl and is getting around.

This is Peter a few days old:

This is Peter at eight months:

We also recently moved (June 16) into a bigger house to accommodate family coming to visit, including returning college kids. We went from having a 4 bedroom, 2 bath house to a 5 bedroom, 3 1/2 bath. The new house also has twice the garage and a full basement, 1/3 of which is finished. It has been much easier to keep the house clean because we have more storage space and the size of the rooms makes it feel less cluttered.


We plan on posting more in the near future, so see you soon!


Monday, March 2, 2009

Snow Day

I grew up in Arizona where there is no such thing as a snow day. The only time we had an emergency closing was when it rained so hard that the schools were worried about flooding. They had a good reason. On the bus ride home, we went over a bridge that was usually about 20 feet above a small creek only about a foot deep. That day, the river was only about a foot below the bridge! I have seen it when it actually went over the bridge...crazy!

But here in New Jersey, the township builds three extra days in the school year to "plan" for the days that it snows over three inches. That's when they close the school... They've also started a new program that we get an automated phone call for emergency closings. We got a call last night at 11 p.m. They don't seem to mind calling at weird hours since it's automated. But I was grateful that they didn't disturb my sleep at 5 a.m. again and that I knew that I could turn off my alarm BEFORE I went to bed.

Having a snow day is like getting a surprise vacation day. I got to sleep in until 8:15 and made a nice breakfast for the kids. Then they went outside to play in the snow. By the time I was ready to go outside, Christian was already back inside (that was nice, then he could watch Katie for me). I grabbed a shovel and shoveled snow for an hour and a half. I guess that's what happens if you have a wide driveway, you get almost no help ( Jonathon cleaned half of the car before he froze), and there's four inches of snow on the ground...

Michael came home from work at 2:30, dropped Jonathon off at his dentist appointment and took Christian and Eliza to the high school to go sledding. I picked Jonathon up and met him there so that Nathaniel and Jonathon could go too. After about half an hour, we headed to Wawa and grabbed hot chocolate and donuts.

All I can say is, "Hooray for Snow Days!" - especially if Michael is around to enjoy them with us!

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Auto Blessings

A couple of weeks ago I was on my way to Wal-Mart, when my brakes started grinding. Luckily, I was going to the gas station first, which also put me on the way to Midas. I stopped at Midas and had them check out the brakes. Sure enough, they were shot. Luckily, since I was so close to Midas when they started grinding, I didn't do any damage to the rotors. They changed the brakes and I was in and out in less than 2 hours. It wasn't the easiest thing to keep 2 kids happy for that long, but the man behind the counter gave Timmy a few m&m's and a drink of milk and Katie is happy as long as she's not hungry. The man also gave me the remote for the TV so that I could put something on that Timmy would like. He was pretty good the whole time and I still had time to go to Wal-Mart and get some shirts for our family photos that night, too. I am so glad that we didn't have brake problems later that night when we were on our way to the photography studio at Bridgewater Commons Mall. That would have been terrible since the studio was 30 minutes away and we had to drive on some major roads and highways to get there. I think the Lord was looking out for us yet again!

Speaking of car issues and the Lord watching over us, I'd like to take a short walk down memory lane. Michael and I have had more than one blessing when it comes to our cars.

For instance, when my brother, Aaron, got off his mission, I drove up to Newark with my two kids to see him. At that time, Jonathon was 3, Christian was 2, and I was about 7 months pregnant with Nathaniel. The three of us met Michael, my parents, and my siblings at the airport. Once we had reunited with Aaron, we decided to go to IKEA to get some dinner from their cafeteria. On the way, I got lost and drove around Elizabeth (SCARY) for about half an hour (luckily my brother, Scott, was with me and the kids) before we finally found it. After we had eaten a little (the cafeteria had closed), I left Newark, alone with the two kids, and drove down Route 1 South through Linden and some other not-so-great towns on my way home instead of just taking the Turnpike. When I was about 2 miles from my house, the car suddenly lost power. I had no clue what was going on, but I realized that I was really close to Bishop Pearson's home. I drove down what I thought was their street (unfortunately I turned one street too soon). When I realized I was on the wrong road, I tried to pull over to the side (coasting all the while), but my power-steering didn't work, nor did my power brakes! However, I managed to pull over and stop. I got out of the car and thankfully had my double stroller in the trunk. As I was putting the sleeping kids in the stroller, it started to rain...yeah. So I walked very fast (okay, sort of ran) through a connecting street and found the Pearson's house. You can imagine how surprised Julie was to see a pregnant woman on foot with two sleeping kids in a stroller at 10:30 p.m. on her front step. I find it very interesting to know that they had just gotten home 10 minutes before I got there. Hmmmm... Coincidence you say?? I choose to not think so. Anyway, she took me and the kids home and Michael was able to get the car fixed. Please remember that this was BEFORE we had cell phones and Michael had gotten home before us and was waiting patiently for us to arrive. I am so glad I didn't get stuck in Elizabeth or Linden!!

Some of our car issues are kind of funny. When Nathaniel was two, he loved to play with car keys. What child doesn't? Whenever we would visit my mom, he could always find my mom's car keys. One time, he was walking around with them in the living room and then found his way outside and into her car. He locked the doors and put them in the ignition. Smart kid! He wouldn't open the doors for anything; no matter how we pleaded, threatened, or bribed with m&m's. We had just given up and were going to get the spare, when he put the car in neutral. My mom's driveway is on a hill. Luckily, the hill doesn't go toward the busy street, but toward her detached garage. Unfortunately it's a steep hill. Needless to say, we panicked. The car would've hit the garage pretty hard if it hadn't run over a garbage can that helped to slow it down. He was fine and did open the door after that. How do you tell the insurance company that your car was in an accident with a two-year-old at the wheel? It's kind of interesting that not only did the insurance company give my parents enough money to fix the hole in the garage, but enough so they could fix the electricity that had been broken for quite some time!

The same week that that happened, Michael was borrowing his mom's car, when he got in an accident that totaled her car. He was fine and luckily it wasn't his fault, but his mom wasn't too happy since she didn't have a car anymore. Well, the insurance company came through and gave them enough so that his dad could get the pickup truck he'd been wanting!

All I can say is that I'm glad for the blessings that we have been given whether it looks like a blessing at first or not. Especially since the last TWO helped us not feel guilty.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Deja Vu?

For the past couple of days Timmy has been sneezing a lot. It's not that that bothers me. It's what comes out of his nose. Then yesterday after church, he started coughing. He woke up in the middle of the night crying and didn't sound too good. Michael went and lied down with him and he was pretty squirmy the rest of the night. This morning when he woke up, he was downright miserable. I made an appointment with the doctor (the first time available was 11:45 a.m.) and by the time we got there he was wheezing and I could tell it was pretty difficult for him to get a good breath without some work.

The doctor asked me if there was any history of bronchiolitis in our family. I told her that Jonathon had had it two days after his first birthday. He was admitted to the hospital for 3 days. He was the smallest child in the pediatric unit when he was admitted. They put an IV in his forearm and then splinted his wrist so that he wouldn't pull the IV out or move his arm too much. He slept in a crib with an oxygen tent and I had to treat him with albuterol using a nebulizer. By the third day, he was up and around and we even got to take him down to the playroom. When we got home, we had to continue with the nebulizer and some antibiotics for a few days. That was almost 12 years ago.


So today when the doctor told me that Timmy had bronchiolitis, I wasn't very happy. She started him on the nebulizer immediately and he was so good! He sat very still the whole 10 minutes that it took. Then he had to take two chewable antibiotics. He took the first one with no problem, but I had to fight to get him to eat the second one. The nurse even had to help. Once I gave him some water, he finished chewing it and swallowed it without any problem.

I'm glad I brought him to the doctor today because she told me if I hadn't, we would be bringing him to the ER tonight. The doctor said that hopefully he won't have to go the hospital if we are careful and diligent about giving him his medicine. So far, he's doing very well. He sits with the mask on and lets the albuterol do its stuff, especially if I put Cars on for him to watch!
This is Timmy watching Cars on my I-Pod while he is treated with the nebulizer

I took Katie to the doctor too because she has also been wheezing a little and has been for the past two weeks. Last night she started to cough and I wanted to be sure she was okay. The doctor listened to her lungs and said that she has only a slight wheeze every so often, but her lungs are clear. She said that breastfeeding is even better than the medicine that Timmy is taking, but also told me to keep an eye on her and to call her if anything changes for the worse.

Sorry to anyone whose child may have come in contact with Katie or Timmy!

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Memories of Shea...

A little long winded on this topic, I know, but I felt the need. Feel free to ignore it.

On Saturday, September 13, 2008, I took Jonathon and Nathaniel to what I believe will be our last trip to Shea Stadium (for the uninitiated, home to the New York Mets. They play baseball). The Mets will open next season in a brand new, state-of- the-art stadium, so they'll be demolishing Shea Stadium during this off-season. The new stadium (Citi Field) is being built in Shea's parking lot and Shea will become the new parking lot (more on parking later). Jonathon was devastated when I told him this, aside from one trip to Yankee Stadium, Shea is the only professional ball park he's ever known. He was less than 6 months old when he went to his first game:


Due to the after effects of one of the latest hurricanes (don’t you love being on a first name basis with all of these storms?), the Friday, Sept. 12 game was postponed and they played a good old fashioned double-header on Saturday. Since I haven't been to a double-header since the age of 13, I decided not to miss the opportunity. Hoping to beat the crowd of last-minute ticket seekers, I ordered 3 of them over the phone right after they opened the office at 9 AM. Instead of having them e-mailed to me, I decided to just pick them up at the ball park upon arrival (more on why this wasn't so bright later).

I wanted to leave the house at 1 PM, first pitch of game 1 was set for 3:55 PM. As is normal with our family, we didn't leave until 2:30. I knew we'd be a little late, but didn't feel as bad because I knew we'd have a second game.

After the usual stop-and-go traffic on 278 between the Goethals bridge and the Verrazzano (1 stalled vehicle, 2 accidents, 3 tow trucks, 4 police cars and TOO MANY rubberneckers), we finally saw the familiar cheesy neon baseball player outlines on the side of Shea by about 4:15. However, because parking is so tight (remember, they're building a new ball park in the current parking lot), I didn't actually get to my seat until about 5 PM (the bottom of the 3rd). I wound up driving an almost complete circle around the stadium, looking for somewhere to park, when a police officer let me take an illegal turn down a one-way street so that I could cross over to one of the satellite parking areas. 15 bucks got me in (more on the total cost of this trip later), after which I found myself desperately racing against one other car for another 10 minutes, trying to squeeze myself into some little nook. The place was packed. I finally parked somewhere (I don't think it was a designated spot, but luckily I wasn't ticketed), and then we got out to run to the park, hoping not to be too late.

The parking area was about 3 blocks from the stadium, it was another 10 minutes before we actually got there, entering near Gate A, all the way on the left field side. The ticket office was by Gate E, which was, of course, all the way by the right field side, the furthest you could possibly have to walk. We found the office and picked up the tickets, only to be reminded that our seats were nearest to...you guessed it, Gate A. So we walked all the way back and finally got in.

Of course it wasn't long before the boys were clamoring for food, but I wasn't in the mood to get up just yet, I convinced them to wait until the 5th inning. Throughout the night we ate (and spent):
  • 2 kids meals (hot dog, chips, small soda and cup of jello) - $10.00. This is by far the biggest steal of any meal at Shea

  • Italian sausage sandwich with peppers and onions (a must have at any ball game, this one for some reason was especially tasty) - $7.25

  • Large fountain soda - $5.25

  • Bag of peanuts - $4.75

  • 2 ice creams in a souvenir helmet - $10.50

  • Very small bag of nachos with cheese and salsa - $6.00

  • 20 oz. bottle of soda (silliest purchase of the night) - $4.75!!

  • 2 cotton candies - $8.00


With 3 tickets costing $77.25, parking at $15.00, plus tolls, it turned into quite a pricey evening. Imagine taking a family of 8! I haven’t done the math to see what all of this added up to, I'm too scared to know.

The Mets lost the first game 3-2 in typical Mets fashion, the bullpen blew a 2-0 lead in the bottom of the 8th. However, the Mets won the second game 5-0, here’s my scorecard from the win:


Random conversation #1 from the evening:

Jonathon: "Dad, do you know what's the best part about being at the ball game?

Me: "What's that?"

Jonathon: "No commercials!"

I must say I agree, TV commercials are a waste of time, though the entire ball park is plastered with advertising. Every square inch seems to be sponsored by somebody.

Random conversation #2:

Jonathon: "Dad, how come we aren't sitting down there by the field?"

Me: "Those seats cost a lot more money than these seats."

Jonathon: "How much are they?"

Me: "About $75 each."

Jonathon: "Wow, for that price, they should let you take the seats home with you.”

With the demolition of the stadium, the Mets are actually selling the seats for anyone that wants to own them. The choice of colors is bright orange, red, blue or green. They are hard plastic, undersized and not the least bit comfortable, but a pair of them can be yours for $872. I even heard that you can buy one of the bases for $999. No thanks.

Random conversation #3:

Jonathon (Nathaniel didn’t say much): “Boy, I’m having a great time at the ball game!”

Me: “Good, I’m glad. What’s been your favorite part?”

Jonathon: “Well, first it was the hot dogs and soda, then the jello, then the ice cream, then the nachos....”


Sometimes I wonder if my kids realize that there's an actual game going on.

The following are some of my own personal memories of Shea, some games I was there for, others I watched on TV, and most of them I listened to on the radio. (BTW, in my opinion, the best way to enjoy a baseball game is by listening to the radio, as announcers "paint the word picture" as Bob Murphy used to say. The announcers are your eyes and your heart, and the good ones can depict in your mind's eye every nuance of every play that’s happening. They are fans just like you and feel what you would feel if you were watching the game yourself and they're able to describe those feelings in crisp, vivid detail.)

Mike Piazza on Sept. 21, 2001 - First professional sports event, and really the first mass gathering of any kind in NYC, after 9/11. The Mets played their arch rivals at the time, the Atlanta Braves. Very emotional night, the Mets took the field wearing hats bearing the logos of New York's first responders (FDNY, NYPD, other emergency personnel, such as EMT and Port Authority officers), instead of their usual uniform caps. They would do this for the rest of the season.

The stadium was filled to capacity. It was quite a scene, with a long, moving tribute to those who died in the attacks and 9/11 heroes lining the field. The Braves and Mets came on to the field prior to the game, and hugged each other, you could see the weight of the moment on their faces. There was still a sense of uneasiness, as there was increased security, and in reality, a fear that some other kind of attack would happen. That mood wasn't singular to those at the ball park that night, I think that anybody living in the NY metropolitan area felt the same thing. Shea Stadium is across the Grand Central Parkway from LaGuardia Airport, with frequent airplanes flying over the stadium during the course of a game. This night was no different, and people watched every plane that flew overhead, with an uneasy anticipation.

It was a tight game, and with the Mets down 2-1 in the bottom of the 8th, Piazza came to the plate and cracked a long, 2-run homer over the left centerfield wall. The crowd went wild, and I think everybody probably breathed a huge sigh of relief. It was a sort of symbolic moment that meant that life could get back to normal. The Mets won the game 3-2.

Mets vs. Cardinals - game 7 of the 2006 National League Championship Series (NLCS) - I was at the park for this one, and the place was electric. The emotion in the stadium was almost palpable. You were on the edge of your seat for every pitch, because the winner would represent the National League in the World Series, something the Mets hadn't done since 2000. They haven't won the World Series since 1986 and based on the regular season, the Mets were by far the better team. We all thought we were there in anticipation of celebrating a trip to the World Series.

Another tight game (the Mets don't know how to play any other way), it was tied at 1 when in the top of the 6th, one of the Cardinal players hit a long drive to left field. It appeared to everyone in the stadium that the ball was gone. However, the Mets left fielder, Endy Chavez, made the most amazing catch for the situation that you'll ever see, he jumped high up over the left field fence and at the same time reached back to pull the ball back from being a sure home run. The crowd went hysterical, we all thought the momentum had finally shifted and that the Mets were sure to win. However, the Mets just couldn't score and in the top of the 8th, Yadier Molina hit a 2-run homer that put the Cardinals ahead 3-1 for good. The atmosphere was one of disbelief, and the air was let out from our collective balloon. To top it off, I missed my connecting train in Newark, and had to find a cab at 1:30 in the morning. An imperfect end to an imperfect evening.

Game 3 of the 2000 World Series against the Yankees - Though we didn't know it at the time, it appeared that Yankee pitcher Roger Clemens had a fit of 'roid rage. Mike Piazza broke his bat on a ground ball, the broken shard landed near the pitcher's mound. Clemens grabbed the sharp piece of bat and flung it at Piazza, as he was running down the first base line. Roger claims that he thought he was picking up the ball. Uh huh, and what, did he think he was playing kickball? You can't peg the runner with a base ball!!

June 1985, second game of double-header - I was at this game when Mets outfielder Danny Heep was in a horrific outfield collision with fellow outfielder Terry Blocker during the second game of a Banner Day doubleheader against the St. Louis Cardinals resulting in an inside-the-park grand slam home run. Never seen anything like it in my life, until a couple of years ago when the Mets Carlos Beltran slammed face first into Mike Cameron, on a similar play. Only my beloved Mets could manage to do something like this. Twice.

Banner Days - getting to walk on the field with a banner that we made from an old sheet. The Mets marketing phrase for the year was "Catch the Rising the Stars", so we drew 25 blue and orange (Mets colors) stars, assigned a player's name to each and wrote "The Stars Have Risen" at the top (it was my dad's idea, we thought it was great and that we were going to win. My dad knew better, but he didn't dissuade us). The winner wound up being some guy who built a 15 foot train out of cardboard that he wore like a costume, much more elaborate than our simple banner, but hey, at least we got to parade around the field.

My almost foul ball - I was about 11, we were sitting in box seats, a couple of rows from the field, down the right field line (back in the days when the Mets were on the cusp of being good after many years of ineptitude. The best seats cost about $8). I could literally see the bags under Darryl Strawberry's eyes from the partying he had probably done the night before. It was later in the game, and I was standing by the railing as a player on the opposing team hit a line drive, foul ball. It was coming right at me. It bounced once and as I leaned my glove hand out, some guy pushed to get in front of me. He caught the ball with his bare hands, and went running back up to his seat. I've never come anywhere close to catching a foul ball since.

Cow Bell Man - a fixture at Mets ballgames, in recent years I haven't been to a game that he didn't attend. He's a fan that walks around the stands, banging on a cow bell with a stick, trying to get the crowd to chant "Let's Go Mets!" "Let's Go Mets!". My kids are fascinated by him. "Look Dad, Cow Bell Man just walked right behind us!". "Dad, I see Cow Bell Man, he's down there!!". "Dad, I can hear Cow Bell Man!!!".

LDS night - We were at a game in 2007 where the missionaries from the NYC mission of the LDS church sang the national anthem to open the game. The missionaries stayed for the game, occupying an entire section of the upper deck.

Anyway, there's lots of other memories, mostly of the Mets letting me down. I always seem to come back for more though. I blame it on my dad, who passed on his "love of baseball" malaise to me. I am hopelessly afflicted.

So thanks for the memories, Shea, I bid thee an appreciative farewell.

I do understand the need to update the facility, Shea really is a dump, and though I've never been overly sentimental, it was/is our dump. I'm going to miss that crummy old place.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Ahhh, Memories...

Lately I've been thinking about last summer when we had a family reunion in California. We went there first and foremost to see my paternal grandparents. My grandpa was not doing well health-wise and we didn't want to wait any longer to go and see them. We left on August 23 and flew into San Jose. We spent the evening with my aunt and her children and grandchildren at my aunt's house. The next day, we drove down to Monterey and stayed in cottages. One of the nice things about that was we had two bedrooms and an eat-in kitchen. We stayed there for a few days and got to see Grandma and Grandpa several times. We had our "big" family reunion at "Wild Things" and got to see a bunch of animals that are trained to be in movies and commercials. Then we had lunch in their picnic area and took a bunch of pictures. The next morning we went out to breakfast (a long standing tradition whenever we see them).
One of the highlights of our trip was driving down to Los Angeles and going to Disneyland. We stayed in a Hilton with suites. Even though we had a kitchen, we mostly ate breakfast at their complimentary breakfast and their (Mon-Thu) complimentary dinner. One morning, we went to Disneyland and did one of the character breakfasts. It was so worth it! The characters that we got to see were: Minnie Mouse, Winnie the Pooh, Eeyore, Captain Hook, the Fairy Godmother, Gepetto, Chip and Dale. We had a wonderful time! The food was pretty good and we have it on good authority (because she told my niece, Ashleigh) that Minnie made the Mickey-shaped waffles.


We tried to go on most of the rides, but there were just so many, it was hard to go on them all! The kids were fascinated on "It's a Small World" and loved Buzz Lightyear. We went on a large pirate ship, too. We got to see the parade twice and went to a really funny hillbilly show.
Timmy on the carousel

Michael & Eliza on a spaceship ride in Tomorrowland
My brother Chris, Nathaniel, Jonathon, Christian, Eliza, & Timmy on the Mad Hatter ride

Eliza in "It's a Small World"
The parade that goes down Main Street

Christian, Jonathon, & David watching the show
Eliza, Timmy, Mandy, & Nathaniel on the pirate ship
We went to Disney's California Adventure on the last day (August 31). At California Adventure, there was a talking trash can that was on wheels and followed the kids around and talked to them. It asked them their names and answered questions. It was so funny to see the kids' reactions! The three oldest boys went on their first really big roller coaster. Several times. We stayed until the very end of the day and got to see the Electric Lights Show.
Both of these were taken at Disney's California Adventure



On September 1, we drove back up to Grandma's and Grandpa's and saw them one last time. We stopped at the coast a couple of times and got to enjoy the Pacific Ocean a little. We stayed in a hotel in the area and the next day went to church. Then we drove up to San Jose to catch our flight home.